7 REASONS WHY PEOPLE SHOULD FIGHT AGAINST WITH THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS, ADOLESCENTS AND CHILDREN, AND WHY THE PRESENCE OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IS DANGEROUS FOR A PERSON IN ADULT LIFE!
Boris Belevtsov
The founder of smartnets in which families with children and everyone learn to the communication without insults and fight against the child's psyche in adults, teenagers and children with the goal of creating an environment of psychologically adults in the worldview of people, thanks to which every child can focus on revealing their natural potential for the purpose of subsequent self-realization in life!
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1. WHY CAN'T A PERSON FIND HIMSELF IN LIFE?
2. 7 REASONS WHY PEOPLE SHOULD FIGHT AGAINST WITH THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS!
3. ATTENTION! THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULT LIFE IS DANGEROUS FOR A PERSON!
4. WHY DOES A CHILD'S PSYCHE PERSIST IN BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS IN ADULT LIFE?
5. HOW TO FIGHT AGAINST THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN CHILDREN AND ADULTS?
6. SYSTEM OF COLORED BLOCKSIGNS «CONFLICT-FREE THINKING™»
7. NATIONAL SMARTNETS
8. WHAT IS A TRULY ADULT PERSON?
9. SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS, TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN!
10. WHAT IS A «SMARTNET»?
11. SELF-REALIZATION OF A CHILD IN LIFE IS POSSIBLE!
| WHY CAN'T A PERSON FIND HIMSELF IN LIFE?
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The result of the correct upbringing of a child by parents is his self-realization in life. Why is a child unable to find himself? — Because he is not able to understand himself. Why?
Because:
• he does not know what he wants;
• he does not listen and does not hear;
• he is convinced of his own rightness and does not understand that he can be wrong;
• he sees only what he wants to see;
• he is in constant self-deception because of conjectures and assumptions;
• he is not able to understand the essence of things;
• he is unable to focus on himself, is constantly distracted, often by insignificant things, and does not attach importance to fateful ones;
• there is no balanced self-esteem: either overestimated or underestimated;
• he has extreme mental state: either childish carelessness or childish panic fear etc..
But the main reason is that almost all the time he is surrounded by psychologically non-adult people, under the influence and depending on whom he is!
There are only two mental states — a psychologically strong person and a psychologically weak, weak in relation to oneself. An exceptionally psychologically strong person will be able to realize himself in life. A child in childhood has a child's psyche by default, which naturally makes him psychologically weak. If parents, in the process of growing and raising a child, do not fight the signs of a child's psyche, then they preserve the child’s psyche in their own child in adulthood. As a result, a person remains psychologically weak and unsure of yourself throughout his life, and most importantly, unable to understand himself, unable to reveal his own natural potential, his strengths and realize them.
IMPORTANT! AN EXCEPTIONALLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG PERSON WILL BE ABLE TO SELF-REALIZE IN LIFE!
In addition, a psychologically weak person is not a fighter in life, he constantly loses to oneself. As a result, self-doubt, lack of self-realization, numerous depressions, alcoholism, drug addiction, suicide, etc.. And because of the childhood fear of making a mistake, a person often avoids making responsible decisions in the three most important and fateful issues in his life: choosing a profession, with whom to start a family, what kind of people a person should live among.
That is why it is very important to realize as early as possible that in fact every person, both a child and an adult, has two ages — biological and psychological. For example, a man may have a biological age of 35-40 years, but a psychological age - the same careless teenager of 12-14 years old with a frivolous attitude towards himself, self-destructive, personally creating problems for himself and those around him. Or, for example, a biologically adult woman of 25-30 years old, who has preserved the psyche of an extremely selfish and frivolous girl aged 12-13 years with an appropriate behavior model, as a rule, not a very smart person, with whom it is impossible to live, while being surprised that no one marries her.
As a result, with such people, it is impossible to create anything serious: neither a strong family, nor friendship, nor a business where family is both friendship and business.
IMPORTANT! THERE ARE NO "FOOLS" OR "IDIOTS" AMONG MAN AND WOMAN IN SOCIETY, BUT THERE ARE PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PEOPLE!
The psychological age of a person is determined by the level of responsibility, that is, the psychological ability to take responsibility not only for oneself, but also for other people, and the higher the level of this responsibility, the higher the psychological age.
Unfortunately, in young families, where both men and women have preserved the child's psyche, there can be no question of self-realization of their children. It is clear to everyone that, first of all, parents are responsible for the upbringing of their minor children, where the upbringing of a child is the process of forming a certain worldview, that is, a certain psyche, on which his future fate will depend.
And in order to form a certain psyche in a child, a parent must be not just a psychologist, but a child psychologist, perfectly know the signs of the child's psyche and fight them. Are parents child psychologists? Are parents struggling with signs of a child's psyche? They don't even know them... Then how do parents raise their own children?!
At first glance, this is not so obvious, but almost all the problems in the world, from domestic scandals to international wars, lie in the field of this problematics — the problem of preserving the child's psyche in adult life in people!
IMPORTANT! THE MOST DANGEROUS AND MOST HIDDEN FROM SOCIETY SELF-DESTRUCTIVE ALL-CONSUMING «SECT» IN THE WORLD IS THE HUGE NUMBER OF BIOLOGICALLY ADULT MEN AND WOMEN WHO HAVE PRESERVED THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULT LIFE!
7 REASONS WHY PEOPLE SHOULD FIGHT AGAINST WITH THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS!
1 THE PSYCHE OF CHILD IS FORMED UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF PEOPLE AROUND HIM. IF YOUR CHILD GROWS UP BEING INFLUENCED AND DEPENDENT ON PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PEOPLE, THEN HE WILL NOT FORM A PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG AND SELF-CONFIDENT PERSONALITY. AS A RESULT, HE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FOCUS ON UNLOCKING HIS NATURAL POTENTIAL AND WILL NOT REALIZE HIMSELF IN LIFE. AT THE SAME TIME, HAVING NEVER FOUND HIMSELF IN LIFE, HE WILL RUIN HIS LIFE WITH HIS OWN HANDS BY LIVING IT IN VAIN!
2 PARENTS WHO DO NOT KNOW THE SIGNS OF THE CHILD'S PSYCHE AND DO NOT FIGHT THEM ARE NOT RAISING THEIR OWN CHILDREN!
3 IF YOU HAVE THROWN IN YOUR LOT WITH A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PERSON, THEN YOU WILL MOST LIKELY GET DIVORCED!
4 YOUR SAFETY, QUALITY OF LIFE, DESTINY AND SELF-REALIZATION DEPEND ON THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU. IF YOUR RELATIVES AND FRIENDS SHOW SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE, THEN THEY ARE VERY LIKELY WILL LET YOU DOWN. AND IF YOU GET INTO BIG TROUBLE IN YOUR LIFE BECAUSE OF THEM, BLAME YOURSELF EXCLUSIVELY!
5 YOU ARE VERY UNLUCKY IN LIFE IF YOUR BOSS IS A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PERSON!
6 ALL CRIMES IN THE WORLD ARE COMMITTED BY BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE, WHOSE AVERAGE PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE IS 12-14 YEARS!
7 STRIVING TO "SAVE FACE" DUE TO THE PRESENCE OF A CHILD'S FEAR OF APPEARING TO BE A NON-ADULT, BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS WITH A CHILD'S PSYCHE ARE NOT ABLE TO AGREE WITH EACH OTHER, AND IF THERE ARE SUCH PEOPLE AMONG POLITICIANS, EXPECT BIG DISASTER FOR THE WORLD AS A WHOLE!
IMPORTANT! THE FOUNDATION OF STRONG RELATIONSHIPS IN FAMILY, FRIENDSHIP, AND BUSINESS IS TRUST. WE DO NOT TRUST THOSE FROM WHOM DANGER COMES. THOSE WHO STILL HAVE SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE ARE DANGEROUS!
IMPORTANT! KNOWING THE SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE, A PERSON WILL LEARN TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE WELL! THIS WILL HELP YOU AVOID IRREPARABLE MISTAKES IN MAKING FATEFUL DECISIONS WHEN CHOOSING WHO TO DEAL WITH AND WITH WHOM IT IS ABSOLUTELY BETTER NOT TO DEAL WITH IN LIFE!
ATTENTION! THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULT LIFE IS DANGEROUS FOR A PERSON!
IT IS THE PRESENCE OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS THAT IS THE MAIN REASON:
• SELF-DOUBT AND LACK OF SELF-REALIZATION;• HATRED AND MUTUAL INSULTS;
• ARROGANCE AND SOCIAL "RACISM";
• SELF-DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR;
• FREQUENT STRESS WITHOUT SERIOUS REASONS;
• ALCOHOLISM;
• DRUG ADDICTION;
• SUICIDE;
• CRIME, TERROR ATTACKS AND MASS SHOOTING;
• HOMELESSNESS;
• UNJUSTIFIED RISK AND CARELESSNESS IN LIFE;
• ACCIDENTS;
• TRAFFIC ACCIDENT;
• FAMILY QUARRELS, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND DIVORCE;
• INSOLENCE AND RUDENESS;
• CONFLICTS, MUTUAL DISTRUST AND AGGRESSION IN SOCIETY!
ATTENTION! YOUR CHILD, HAVING FORMED A PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG PERSONALITY, WILL BE ABLE TO AVOID THE ABOVE IF HE IS SURROUNDED BY PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULT PEOPLE IN THE WORLDVIEW!
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IMPORTANT! ALMOST EVERYONE HAS SIGNS OF THE CHILD'S PSYCHE TO ONE DEGREE OR ANOTHER! LIFE IS ALWAYS A LONG-TERM TEAM GAME IN WHICH ALL PEOPLE ARE MUTUALLY DEPENDENT. THAT IS WHY THE SAFETY, QUALITY OF LIFE, DESTINY AND SELF-REALIZATION OF YOUR CHILDREN DEPENDS ON THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM!
| WHY DOES A CHILD'S PSYCHE PERSIST IN BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS IN ADULT LIFE?
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1 SURROUNDING PEOPLE
The child’s psyche is formed under the influence of the people around him. If a child grows up surrounded by psychologically non-adults, and these are children, adolescents and biologically adults who have retained their child’s psyche in adulthood, then by imitating them, maintaining the same behavior model, the child retains the same value system and, accordingly, the same state of mind.
2 MISCONCEPTION BECOMES THE NORM FOR DECADES
When communicating online in first-generation social networks, due to the gross mistakes made by inexperienced developers, people do not grow up psychologically. Children and teenagers, focused on themselves, constantly distracted by each other, usually by something frivolous and insignificant, develop the erroneous idea that everything is as it should be, this is how all the people around them live and, therefore, this is correct . And this only model of behavior, absolutely natural for the child’s psyche, repeating itself from year to year, becomes the norm for decades.
3 MUTUAL FIXATION AND OBSESSION ON EACH OTHER
Mutual fixation, in which children are influenced by, and most importantly, dependent on each other, that is, dependent on psychologically non-adult people, is the result of the fact that a child grows up surrounded by careless people with frivolous interests in life. As a result, we have a society of outwardly adult people 25-40 years old, but with the psyche of children and adolescents, with a frivolous attitude towards themselves, who are not only unable to solve the problems of society, but also plunge society into danger.
IMPORTANT! THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IS FORMED UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF THE ENVIRONMENT AND DEPENDING ON IT. IN ORDER FOR A PERSON TO REALIZE HIMSELF IN LIFE, HE NEEDS TO REVEAL HIS NATURAL POTENTIAL, HIS STRENGTHS. TO DO THIS, HE NEEDS TO DEVELOP A BALANCED SELF-ESTEEM, WHICH WILL BE ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO DO IF THE CHILD IS UNDER THE INFLUENCE AND DEPENDING ON THE ENVIRONMENT OF PEOPLE WITH A CHILD’S PSYCHE!
| HOW TO FIGHT AGAINST THE THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS, TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN?
Option 1 Below, in the public domain, “The signs of a child’s psyche and comments on them” are posted absolutely free of charge, which you can discuss with your children among loved ones, relatives and friends.
Option 2 More efficiently, and most importantly independently, your children can do it in a multifunctional smartmedia «SpartakPremium.com», in which not only you, but also the families with children around you will also struggle with signs of a child's psyche in themselves. To do this, you need to purchase for a small fee a subscription to an annual family account, where you and your children:
✅ - will not be among careless people who form the psyche of a frivolous attitude towards themselves;
✅ - will be among people who contribute to the formation of a person's self-confidence;
✅ - will learn to the communication without insults and struggle with the signs of the child's psyche with the help of the «Conflict-Free Thinking™» color blocksigns system ;
✅ - will make friends, meet new people, create families and communicate with people who want to grow up in order to achieve serious results in life!
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, YOUR CHILDREN WILL BE INFLUENCED AND DEPENDING ON THE ENVIRONMENT OF PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULT PEOPLE WHEN THEY GROW UP PSYCHOLOGICALLY ON THEIR OWN!
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| SYSTEM OF COLORED BLOCKSIGNS «CONFLICT-FREE THINKING™»
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In a smartnet «SpartakPremium.com» the system of colored blocksigns «Conflict-free thinking™» has been integrated, with the help of which, in the process of everyday communication, showing care and goodwill, identifying each other's behavior model inherent in childhood and adolescence, the surrounding people, who care about each other — parents, children and friends, as well as everyone, to whom there is trust, send each other green blocksigns, where 44 signs of the childish and teenage psyche are identified.
As a result of regular discussions of the relevant signs depending on the events in life, both children and adults start thinking processes that contribute to the formation of a certain worldview, in the presence of which a person strives to become psychologically strong and self-confident; seeks to develop a balanced self-esteem and become able to objectively assess the events around.
It is important to note that an environment of people defined by their properties is created inside the smartnet — purposeful and responsible, on whom the safety, quality of life, fate and self-realization of any person will depend! It is obvious that being in such an environment, a child, having naturally formed the same psyche in himself, will achieve much greater success in economic terms than surrounded by psychologically weak and insecure people.
In addition to the green blocksign in the system of colored blocksigns «Conflict-free thinking™», there are also blocksigns of orange, black, blue, pink colors, with which you and your children will independently learn to the communication without insults, prevent each other's self-destructive behavior and control their own safety!
see also other blocksigns:
«INSULTING A PERSON'S PERSONALITY»
«EXTREME INSULTS AND HUMAN SECURITY MONITORING»
«INSULTS OF FEMALE DIGNITY»
«INSULTS OF MALE DIGNITY»
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DON'T FORGET TO RECOMMEND SIMILAR SMARTNETS TO FAMILIES OF OTHER NATIONALITIES!
| NATIONAL SMARTNETS
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NOTE We apologize if you haven't found your national smart network. The resource may be currently under development. You can also submit a request to develop a multifunctional smartnet for your ethnic group to:
| WHAT IS A TRULY ADULT PERSON?
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A TRULY ADULT PERSON IS:
1 PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG, SELF-CONFIDENT, WITHOUT THE PRESENCE OF SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE;
2 ONE WHO CONSIDERS THE POSSIBILITY OF DESTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES FROM THEIR ACTIONS AND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM;
3 ONE WHO IS FOCUSED ON UNLOCKING THE NATURAL POTENTIAL NOT ONLY IN HIMSELF, BUT ALSO IN OTHERS;
4 ONE WHO, WHILE CARING, IS NOT THE OBJECT OF CARE;
5 SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T BREAK ANY LAWS OUT OF SELF-RESPECT!
NOTE As soon as a person begins to struggle with the signs of the child's psyche in himself placed below, from that moment on, a person ceases to be considered psychologically non-adult, since he is aware of this problem in himself and is ready to fight it responsibly.
| SIGNS OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE IN ADULTS , TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN!
ATTENTION! THE SIGNS ARE DEVELOPED ON THE BASIS OF ELEMENTARY LOGIC, WHICH IS ABSENT FROM THE CHILD BY DEFAULT DUE TO THE LACK OF LIFE EXPERIENCE DUE TO CHILDHOOD! THE STUDY OF THE SIGNS OF THE CHILD'S PSYCHE DEVELOPS EVERYDAY LOGICAL REASONABLENESS, WHICH CONTRIBUTES TO A MORE ADEQUATE PERCEPTION OF EVENTS AROUND!
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NOTE Users, exclusively native speakers of the language and identity, depending on the peculiarities of national culture, using the system of color blocksigns «Conflict-free thinking™», can independently edit the signs of the child's psyche in the process of general discussion within the multifunctional smartmedia «SpartakPremium.com»!
ATTENTION! IN ORDER TO AVOID PROVOKING SCANDALS OR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, A WOMAN IS STRICTLY PROHIBITED FROM MAKING OFFENSIVE REMARKS ABOUT PSYCHOLOGICAL IMMATURITY TO A MAN WITH OBVIOUS SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE! REMEMBER, IT IS ONLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT MEN WHO RAISE THEIR HANDS AGAINST THOSE WHO ARE WEAKER!
ATTENTION! IN ORDER TO AVOID PROVOKING SCANDALS, A MAN IS STRICTLY PROHIBITED FROM MAKING OFFENSIVE REMARKS ABOUT THE PSYCHOLOGICAL IMMATURITY TO A WOMAN WITH OBVIOUS SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE! REMEMBER, AN EXCEPTIONALLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT WOMAN BEHAVES EXTREMELY STUPIDLY!
REMEMBER! ALMOST EVERYONE, TO ONE DEGREE OR ANOTHER, HAS SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE! INSTEAD OF MUTUAL INSULTS AND HUMILIATIONS, PATIENT STUDY OF THEM TOGETHER IS STRONGLY RECOMMENDED!
EDITION 3.1
(Author: © Boris Belevtsov)
A group of signs of a child and teenage psyche corresponding to a green blocksign, when it is difficult to call a person an psychologically adult if he has the following signs:
1 а biologically adult with a child's psyche or a child is not able to realize that people do not choose at birth:
- their nationality;
- skin color;
- their first and last name;
- sex;
- their natural data;
- physical appearance;
- their parents;
- birthplace;
- social status (rich / poor);
- their mental abilities;
- talent or lack of it;
- their environment, conditions and circumstances of life during the first 13-14 years*.
AND REPROACH, BLAME, AND EVEN MORE SO TO HUMILIATE A PERSON BECAUSE OF THIS YOU CAN NOT!
Commentary on sign No. 1.
* During the first 13-14 years, the child cannot influence the circumstances and the choice of his environment. He is obedient and completely dependent on his parents. If a child is in conditions in which, through no fault of his own, he does not have the opportunity to develop, for example, to play sports, creativity, music, etc., while a child from a small provincial town lives in a low-income family where parents do not have the opportunity to pay enough time to raise their children, at the same time, under the influence of the "street", surrounded by people who have preserved the child's psyche in adult life, then it will be difficult for him to reveal his natural potential, his strengths on his own!
IMPORTANT! THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IS FORMED EXCEPTIONALLY UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF THE ENVIRONMENT!
ATTENTION! THE CHILD PSYCHE IN BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS, TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN — THE TRUE CAUSES OF RACISM, FACISM, ANTI-SEMITISM, CHAUVINISM, AMERICANOPHOBIA, RUSSOPHOBIA, ISLAMOPHOBIA, CHRISTIANOPHOBIA, XENOPHOBIA, ETC.!
2 a person does not take into account the possibility of negative consequences from his actions and is not responsible for them;
Commentary on sign No. 2.
The problems that exist in the world — conflicts, hatred, hostility, racism, terrorist attacks, mass shooting, accidents, alcoholism, drug addiction, crimes, economic crises, international wars, etc. exist solely because of psychologically non-adult people who, because of the child's psyche, do not take into account the possibility of negative consequences from their actions.
ALL THE PROBLEMS IN SOCIETY ARE DUE TO THE FACT THAT PEOPLE DO NOT TAKE INTO ACCOUNT THE POSSIBILITY OF NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES FROM THEIR ACTIONS!
3 fanaticism and any of its manifestations: ideological, political, national, religious, sports, etc., except the desire to become a professional in one’s business, solving other people’s problems, and not creating problems for other people;
IMPORTANT! FANATICISM AND OBSESSION IS UNIQUE TO CHILDREN! AT THE SAME TIME, FANATICISM IN THE FIGHT AGAINST THE CHILD'S PSYCHE IS UNACCEPTABLE!
4 a feeling of hatred and hostility, based on children's fear;
Commentary on sign No. 4.
Hatred is a form of latent aggression inherent in a psychologically weak person. The reason for hatred is self-defense, based on a child's fear of not being able to withstand competition among equals.
The reason for hatred is also childish carelessness, in which a person does not realize that hatred, as well as hostility towards other people (peoples, countries), provokes counter hatred and aggression.
HATRED AND HOSTILITY ARE A CLEAR SIGN OF PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PEOPLE!
5 excessive sense of self-worth; often brags; measures something with peers; strives to appear to be who/what he is not;
Commentary on sign No. 5.
The basis of a child’s sense of self-worth is the child’s desire to appear as an adult.
NOTE The inability to satisfy a sense of self-worth leads to increased vulnerability of the child. A psychologically non-adult person, due to an extremely strong sense of childish vulnerability, does not tolerate public insults. A feeling of resentment can provoke an uncontrollable desire to prove that a person is not an empty place. As a result, in attempts to avenge numerous humiliations, in a state of stress, this can provoke a person to aggression and violence!
PREVENTION OF AGGRESSION IN SOCIETY IS POSSIBLE UNDER THE CONDITION OF A CATEGORICAL BAN ON INSULTS AMONG TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN!
6 a person is not able to admit his own mistakes; unable to take personal criticism; for a person, the main thing is to "save face" (a child's fear of seeming non-adult!)
Commentary on sign No. 6.
A child's fear that adults will scold him is the reason for his inability to admit his own mistakes. Because of a childhood fear of doing something wrong, a psychologically non-adult refuses to do anything on his own, and as a result does not develop skills and does not gain experience. At the same time, he does not understand that personal criticism is useful feedback, thanks to which a person becomes a professional. Additionally, admitting mistakes is essential to developing a balanced self-esteem.
NOTE The desire to save face, that is, not to fall face down in the dirt; the fear of looking childishly stupid, when one is ashamed to admit one’s mistakes, means that a person has a childish fear of appearing psychologically non-adult!
7 a person does not permit other points of view and does not realize that he is plunging himself into self-deception; a person does not listen and does not hear; he/she sees only what he/she wants to see;
Commentary on sign No. 7.
In search of personal safety a child or a psychologically non-adult person always joins a group of people with similar beliefs. As a result, in the group of "single" thinking, a balanced assessment of what is happening around is impossible, since people with different convictions are excluded. And what is more dangerous, "like-minded people", plunging themselves into self-deception*, fall into the psychological trap of mutual dependence on what they think is the only correct way of thinking. This emerging illusion among a group of people leads to a false sense of absolute conviction in one's own rightness. As a result, a person begins to see only what he wants to see, and not what is actually happening.
The catastrophic trap for a society dependent on the illusion of unified thinking is that another point of view begins to be perceived as a threat to society, and a person with an alternative point of view - as an enemy of the people!
*Self-deception is when you lie to yourself! Lying to others is also self-deception!
IMPORTANT! SELF-DECEPTION IS A CONSTANT STATE OF A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PEOPLE!
NOTE This state is extremely dangerous due to an erroneous assessment of what is happening around due to a person’s obsession with misleading himself on a daily basis!
8 a person has an 100% conviction in his own rightness; a person does not realize that he can make mistakes;
Commentary on sign No. 8.
A sychologically adult allows a maximum of 90% of self-righteousness, and reserves the remaining 10% in order not to accidentally turn off his thinking processes, in which, assuming that he may be wrong, he rechecks everything once again.
9 a person uses insults and ridicule; schadenfreude (a feeling of joy at someone else's failure); envy (a feeling of chagrin at someone else's success);
Commentary on sign No. 9.
Exceptionally children and psychologically non-adults, for the purpose of their own self-aggrandizement by humiliating people, use insults and ridicule.
A biologically adult with a psychological age of up to 13 years, as a rule, does not realize that he is insulting.
A biologically adult with a psychological age of 13-14 years uses insults and ridicule intentionally.
NOTE Insults are a form of childish aggression based on childhood fear. Ridicule is a form of mockery and bullying against those who are weaker. Usually, a group of cowardly teenagers ridicules, in fact, scoffs, usually in a mean and petty way, at those who are younger and cannot stand up for themselves!
IMPORTANT! INSULTS ARE A CLEAR SIGN OF A CHILD'S PSYCHE! IF SUCH A PERSON INSULTS YOU, DO NOT REACT!
10 a person uses profanity, including in front of women and children;
Commentary on sign No. 10.
Only teenagers and psychologically weak, insecure men use profanity in order to give their words weight and importance to themselves, while not realizing that swearing insults the opposite sex.
NOTE Profanity is permissible only in stressful situations, in extreme conditions and circumstances extremely dangerous to human life!
IMPORTANT! PROFANITY IS A CLEAR SIGN OF A PSYCHOLOGICALLY INSECURE MAN!
11 a person does not strive for a balanced self-esteem and a balanced assessment in the judgments of others;
Commentary on sign No. 11.
In order for a child to reveal his natural potential, he needs to develop an objective assessment of his real capabilities, his strengths and further focus on their development.
To do this, you necessary to:
- to teach the child not to insult or humiliate people, that is, not to elevate himself (see criteria for insults: the orange blocksign);
- to fight low or high self-esteem so that the child does not focus on his weaknesses;
- to teach the child to see both the pros and cons of events around.
NOTE See also extreme mental states: sign No. 36
12 a person makes value judgments based on speculation;
Commentary on sign No. 12.
A child or a biologically adult with a childish psyche draws conclusions, as a rule, based on rumors and unverified information from one unreliable source, in contrast to a psychologically adult person, who draws conclusions by subjecting everything to analysis*, based on verified, confirmed information from various, reliable 4-5 sources, referring to professional experts.
* Analysis means comparing «A» with «B».
A PERSON, EXPRESSING VALUE JUDGMENTS BASED ON CONJECTURES, DOES NOT REALIZE THAT HE IS MISLEADING HIMSELF AND THOSE AROUND HIM!
13 false conclusions from the particular to the general — if one is "like that", then all are "like that";
Commentary on sign No. 13.
A psychologically immature person does not realize that he provokes cruelty, aggression and conflicts in society, judging by one thing about everyone.
If among people of one nationality or religion one puts himself above others or is a terrorist, this does not mean that all people of this nationality or religion are the same.
DO NOT JUDGE BY ONE THING ABOUT EVERYONE!
14 a person is non-team player in life; does not realize that a person's life — a long-term team game; does not realize that all people are interdependent; confuses the concept of "independence" with the concept of "autonomy";
Commentary on sign No. 14.
a person is non-team player in life;
A non-team player is a person who does not understand that he is in the same “boat” with everyone; a person who wants not to burden himself with obligations to others and avoids this in every possible way; a person who, due to his small psychological age, is not ready to take responsibility for other people.
A characteristic feature of a non-team player is the person's lack of friends.
does not realize that a person's life — a long-term team game;
Because of childish carelessness, a person does not realize that life is always a long-term team game in which all people are mutually dependent on each other, that is, the safety and success of everyone always depends on the safety and success of everyone around.
A team can be two or more people and this includes family, relatives, friends, colleagues, society and even the state. At the same time, a psychologically non-adult does not realize his own benefit from the success of the entire team, as a result of which there is no commitment to the team. After receiving immediate benefits from the work of the whole team, without burdening himself with obligations to other team members, such a person easily leaves the team in search of greater benefits for himself. The reason is not a team player.
A non-team player in the eyes of the team is a person who left his own people in danger, that is, a traitor: for children, this is a father who left the family; friends who did not support you in a difficult situation; a key employee who transferred to a competitor; citizens immigrating during a difficult period for their country.
IMPORTANT! NO FAMILY, NO FRIENDSHIP, NO BUSINESS WILL WORK IF YOU ARE DEALING WITH A NON-TEAM PLAYER!
IMPORTANT! IT IS POSSIBLE TO REALIZE A CHILD’S POTENTIAL IF HE IS SURROUNDED BY TEAM PLAYERS, ON WHOM HIS SELF-REALIZATION DEPENDS BY 50%!
does not realize that all people are interdependent on each other; confuses the concept of "independence" with the concept of "autonomy";
In everyday life, it is impossible to avoid the interdependence of people. Children depend on their parents, and parents depend on their children. We depend on relatives, friends, neighbors, bosses, and they, in turn, depend on us. A woman depends on a man as much as a man depends on a woman; blacks on whites, whites on blacks; poor on rich, rich on poor, etc.. The individual depends on the collective, and the collective on the individual.
All people in the world, including states, have always been, are and will be dependent on each other. That is why many confuse the concept of "independence" with the concept of "autonomy", where the autonomy of a person, as well as the state, is self-sufficiency, reliability, conflict-free and responsibility inherent in the state-leader and/or elite — psychologically adult people leading humanity to a safer world, and not solving issues of their own security at the expense of, and most importantly, to the detriment of other people's safety.
IN EVERYDAY LIFE, THE INTERDEPENDENCE OF PEOPLE IS INEVITABLE!
IMPORTANT! NO FAMILY, NO FRIENDSHIP, NO BUSINESS WILL WORK IF YOU ARE DEALING WITH A NON-TEAM PLAYER!
15 a person has no real friends, there are only familiar buddies;
Commentary on sign No. 15.
"Friendship" is the ability of psychologically adult people to take responsibility for participating in each other's fate, for example, men or women, relatives, friends, acquaintances. A psychologically non-adult person is not capable of making friends!
A child or a psychologically immature person, due to childish carelessness, not realizing that his safety, quality of life, fate and self-realization depend on the people around him, strives in every possible way not to burden himself with obligations to other people.
Avoiding participation, for example, in the problems of friends, both minor and serious, a person develops superficial relationships with friends, which are quite enough for him to have a good time. Subsequently, such a person is perceived in the eyes of others as unreliable and unsafe, which is better not to deal with. As a result, a person remains without real friends throughout his life!
IMPORTANT! FRIENDSHIP IS POSSIBLE ONLY AMONG PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULT PEOPLE!
16 a person does not value relationships with people; a person has an indifferent attitude towards relatives, friends, acquaintances;
Commentary on sign No. 16.
For a person with a child's psyche, relationships between people are of no value.
NOTE See signs No.14 and No.15!
17 a person focuses on insignificant things, and does not attach importance to fateful things in his life;
Commentary on sign No. 17.
A child or a biologically adult with a child's psyche, focusing on things that are insignificant to themselves, attaches great importance to them. As a result, he inflates a big problem out of trifles, but does not attach importance to really important, crucial issues in his life, such as choosing a profession, choosing a partner to start a family, choosing an environment on which security, quality of life, fate and self-realization of a person will depend, and treats them lightly.
CHILDREN, FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF MUTUAL FIXATION/OBSESSION*, FORCE EACH OTHER TO FOCUS ON INSIGNIFICANT THINGS!
* «Mutual fixation/obsession » — excessive focus on one thing to the detriment of everything else.
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18 psychologically self-doubt person; irresponsible; not able to think for himself or make decisions on his own; chronic whiner; demonstrates helplessness, requires support; lacks stamina and patience; is unable to control himself;
Commentary on sign No. 18.
Parents who are excessively and fanatically concerned about the well-being of their children do not realize that they are preserving childhood self-doubt in their own child!
Maintaining extreme mental states — frivolity in decision-making, when the child does not think about the consequences, usually self-destructive, or vice versa, when the child is panicked and avoids making decisions for himself for fear of making a mistake, that is, both states — carelessness and fear, develop into helplessness and self-doubt.
In adult life, such a person becomes irritable, turns into a chronic whiner, constantly complains about life, neighbors, bosses, everyone around is indebted to him, everyone around is to blame, while a psychologically non-adult is not able to take responsibility even for himself.
IMPORTANT! BECAUSE OF CHILDHOOD SELF-DOUBT, A PERSON SUFFERS GREATLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY IN ADULT LIFE!
NOTE A child or a psychologically non-adult does not realize that the higher the level of responsibility, the more success a person will achieve in life, since responsibility, first of all for himself, is necessary for a person to realize his own potential!
PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR PRESERVING SELF-DOUBT IN A CHILD!
THE HUMAN PSYCHE IS FORMED UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF THE ENVIRONMENT AND DEPENDING ON IT! BEING SURROUNDED BY PSYCHOLOGICALLY SELF-DOUBT PEOPLE, THE CHILD WILL ALSO RETAIN SELF-DOUBT!
19 frivolous attitude towards yourself; a person lacks purposefulness; a person does not attach importance to their own development;
Commentary on sign No. 19.
Because of a frivolous attitude towards oneself, a psychologically non-adult person does not strive to achieve a significant goal in his life. As a result, a person has no need for self-organization, self-discipline and self-development.
Parents need to ensure that the child sets extremely important goals for himself, including those aimed at identifying and realizing his strengths. Setting long-term goals will force the child to independently acquire practical experience, develop skills and knowledge aimed at solving other people's problems.
IMPORTANT! TO OVERCOME A CHILD'S FRIVOLOUS ATTITUDE TOWARDS HIMSELF — DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO SHOW HACK WORK IN ANY CASE!
20 a person is not able to prioritize in life;
Commentary on sign No. 20.
A psychologically non-adult person is not able to understand himself, therefore he cannot understand what he wants. As a result, it is difficult for a person to prioritize in life.
The main priorities should be good relationships with people and self-realization, since relationships depend on how fulfilled a person is in life, and self-realization depends on the people around him.
21 a person does not plan his life for more than 7 days;
Commentary on sign No. 21.
A child's fear of making a mistake does not allow a person to plan his life: you are a child, and everything is always decided for you first by your parents, then by your wives and managers.
It is necessary to plan your life only on your own and only in the long term.
22 a person does not focus on their strengths; a person does not strive to be realized in society;
Commentary on sign No. 22.
A psychologically non-adult person does not attach importance to his strengths and, constantly focusing on weaknesses, plunges himself into all sorts of stresses.
Because of the conviction of his own incapacity, a person does not try to understand his abilities, and extremely low self-esteem does not allow him to do this objectively. As a result, a person does not do his own thing all his life, causing enormous damage to his own psyche, and does not do what a person really has the ability to do!
Self-realization is not a trivial “success” in society, but a process of fair self-criticism, in which the self-esteem of a psychologically adult person is equal to the assessment given to him by a psychologically adult society, where the measurement of solving other people’s problems is numbers (money)!
TO REACH YOUR POTENTIAL, YOU NEED TO FOCUS EXCLUSIVELY ON THE STRENGTHS OF A PERSON!
23 a person does not choose own profession; does not strive for professionalism; allows "hackwork";
Commentary on sign No. 23.
Due to the psychological inability to figure himself out due to childhood and because of the childish fear of making a mistake, the teenager avoids making a decision in choosing his profession. As a result, parents, forced to decide instead of him, playing roulette with the fate of their own child, often do not guess with a profession. By choosing a profession instead of a child, parents, without realizing it themselves, personally preserve the child's psyche in their own child's for the rest of life.
Hackwork in work for which money is paid; hackwork in relationships with people; hackwork in everyday life and personal life — the reason is a frivolous attitude towards oneself.
NOTE Parents need to prevent "hack-work" in the actions of the child, because when the child does something, he learns to control himself.
IMPORTANT! INDEPENDENT CHOICE OF PROFESSION IS A SIGN OF A PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG PERSON!
IMPORTANT! A HACK IN LIFE IS A SIGN OF A CHILDISH FRIVOLOUS ATTITUDE TOWARDS ONESELF!
24 a person does not struggle with the signs of a child's psyche in himself; a parent does not raise his children if he does not know the signs of a child's psyche;
Commentary on sign No. 24.
IMPORTANT! THE RESULT OF PROPER PARENTING OF A CHILD IS HIS SELF-REALIZATION IN LIFE!
The upbringing of a child is the process of forming a psychologically strong, self-confident person, with a balanced self-esteem, able to independently assess their real capabilities; without childish fear of making mistakes; able to say a categorical adult "no" to self-destruction; possessing everyday logical judiciousness and capable of qualitatively solving the problems of others of people.
BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE
It is possible to build a child’s self-confidence if parents involve him as much as possible in acquiring all kinds of life experiences. The more practical experience, the more self-confidence a person has.
FIND YOURSELF IN LIFE
In order for a child to understand himself and understand what he wants to do in life, it is important for parents to force the child to do a lot through force. This is necessary so that in the child’s psyche, using the “by contradiction” method, through overcoming oneself and through “I don’t want and won’t,” a clear idea of what is really interesting to him is formed.
As a result, a person should become a "boss" over himself, that is, have a state of mind when he himself will responsibly determine what to do in life. At the same time, the hobby that parents need to cultivate in a child must necessarily be aimed at solving other people's problems.
MONEY
When choosing a profession, it is important to understand and take into account that money is paid exclusively for solving other people’s problems, and not one’s own, and the metric (assessment) of actions in society is numbers (money). Due to the inability to solve other people's problems qualitatively, many people live in poverty.
TO REVEAL A CHILD’S STRENGTHS, IT IS NECESSARY TO:
1 OBSERVE AND FOCUS ON HIS HOBBIES OR INVOLVE HIM IN ACTIVITIES THAT AROUSE INTEREST IN WHAT HE SEES;
2 DISTRACT HIM FROM THE FRIVOLOUS;
3 GIVE INDEPENDENCE;
4 AVOID HACKWORK IN ANY OF HIS ACTIONS;;
5 FOCUS THE CHILD'S ATTENTION ON ACTIONS AIMED AT SOLVING THE PROBLEMS OF OTHERS!
IMPORTANT! THE RESULT OF PROPER PARENTING OF A CHILD IS HIS SELF-REALIZATION IN LIFE!
IMPORTANT! THE UPBRINGING OF A CHILD IS THE PROCESS OF FORMING A PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG, SELF-CONFIDENT PERSON, WITH A BALANCED SELF-ESTEEM, ABLE TO INDEPENDENTLY ASSESS THEIR REAL CAPABILITIES; WITHOUT CHILDISH FEAR OF MAKING MISTAKES; ABLE TO SAY A CATEGORICAL ADULT "NO" TO SELF-DESTRUCTION; POSSESSING EVERYDAY LOGICAL JUDICIOUSNESS AND CAPABLE OF QUALITATIVELY SOLVING THE PROBLEMS OF OTHERS OF PEOPLE!
25 a person runs away from problems instead of looking for alternative solutions to them; lack of fighting qualities in life;
Commentary on sign No. 25.
a person runs away from problems instead of looking for alternative solutions to them;
Often, when running away from problems, a psychologically non-adult person runs away from himself. At the same time, the problem, as it turns out in practice, can be solved quite easily in an alternative way. A psychologically adult is always looking for alternative solutions to their problems.
lack of fighting qualities in life;
In everyday life, fighting qualities are necessary for a person to fight to the end when going towards a goal, combining the incompatible — stubbornness to achieve the goal, and flexibility to avoid obstacles along the way. And being a lifelong fighter doesn't mean fighting on the street.
IMPORTANT! EXCEPTIONALLY A FIGHTER IN LIFE WILL BE ABLE TO REALIZE HIS POTENTIAL!
26 a person lacks everyday logical judiciousness; a person does not try to understand the essence; a person does not even realize that he does not understand; he does not know what he wants; he does not gain life experience; from year to year the level of knowledge remains at the same level; the priority is form, not content;
Commentary on sign No. 26.
a person lacks everyday logical judiciousness;
Due to the child's age, by default, due to lack of life experience and practical knowledge, the child naturally lacks elementary logic in everyday life.
Without trying to understand the essence of the problems, a psychologically non-adult makes hasty conclusions based on superficial judgments. As a result, by making mistakes in making serious decisions, a person creates even more problems in his life.
the priority is form, not content;
The priority of form over content means that a child or a psychologically non-adult person sees only the form and does not see the content, and the content of a person is what a person represents as a person: what he can do, whether he is a specialist, what he offers and whether his words make sense and benefit you.
IMPORTANT! WE OFTEN JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR FORM, AS A RESULT WE ARE DEALING WITH DILETTANTES, SCAMMERS, IMAGINARY LEADERS AND EMPTY-MOUTHED!
Examples:
• in form, a biologically adult woman, and in content, an adolescent girl, who has not grown psychologically to the state of a responsible mother;
• in form, a biologically adult man, and in content — a child, both in behavior and in outlook;
• in form, a person with a specialist diploma, and in content — a fake "expert" with superficial knowledge;
• in form a team, and in content — each on his own, etc..
27 a person strives for anonymity, so as not to be responsible for words and deeds;
Commentary on sign No. 27.
ANONYMITY IN SOCIAL NETWORKS
In order for an adult or a child to realize himself in life, a person needs to mature to such a mental state when he can truly be responsible for his words and actions. Hiding a face or name under an avatar or nickname, that is, a person’s avoidance of personal responsibility does not allow this to be done, but allows the formation of a psychologically weak, insecure personality, usually “petty” and vile, of a potentially criminal nature.
LEARN TO "BITE" YOUR TONGUE
Human success is always based on personal responsibility. A common mistake is the desire to be anonymous, in which a person does not realize that a strong relationship, on which a person's fate depends, is always based on personal trust. Reputational risks and lack of anonymity in the smart network will force a child to think before speaking from childhood, teach him to "bite" his tongue in time, since any spoken words are the cause of most conflicts in life.
IMPORTANT! SPOKEN WORDS ARE DEEDS! THE CAUSE OF MOST CONFLICTS ARE WORDS!
28 a person posts photos and videos online that damage their own reputation;
Commentary on sign No. 28.
Taking pictures in a negligee, it will be more difficult for a woman to get married and, even more so, to create a strong family.
29 a person does not care that he is surrounded by psychologically non-adult people; parents do not care that their child forms his psyche surrounded by people with a child's psyche; a person does not constantly exclude from his environment people who refuse to fight against the child's psyche in themselves, that is, they refuse to fight with a frivolous attitude towards themselves; a person does not constantly include in his environment people who do not refuse to fight against the child's psyche in themselves;
Commentary on sign No. 29.
A child or a biological adult, due to the presence of a child’s psyche, treats himself and his future lightly. His safety, quality of life and fate will depend solely on the people around him. It is the environment that forms the psyche of the child, and if the child is among psychologically non-adult people, then it will be almost impossible for him to reveal and realize his potential. Unfortunately, often parents who have preserved a child's psyche themselves in adulthood do not notice that their own children are growing up among psychologically non-adult people.
If there are people in your environment with whom you have known for a long time and who are beginning to clearly show signs of a child’s psyche, and who at the same time categorically refuse to fight them, you are strongly advised not to continue relations with them. A person must constantly filter out psychologically non-adult people in their environment. Otherwise, it will be impossible to realize oneself, from the word at all!
YOUR SAFETY, QUALITY OF LIFE, DESTINY AND SELF-REALIZATION DEPEND ON THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU! IT IS NECESSARY TO CONSTANTLY FILTER OUT FROM YOUR ENVIRONMENT THOSE WHO REFUSE TO FIGHT THE SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE IN THEMSELVES!
IF YOU YOURSELF DECIDE TO BE AMONG PEOPLE WITH A CHILDISH PSYCHE, THEN WHEN YOU HAVE BIG TROUBLES IN LIFE BECAUSE OF THEM, BLAME ONLY YOURSELF!
IT IS IMPORTANT NOT TO INSULT, NOT TO HUMILIATE, BUT TO MAINTAIN AND CONSTANTLY CHERISH GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH THOSE WHO DO NOT REFUSE TO FIGHT THE SIGNS OF A CHILD’S PSYCHE IN THEMSELVES!
30 demonstration of arrogance and social superiority, based on the principle "I am higher, you are lower"; neglect of a person's personality; "social racism";
Commentary on sign No. 30.
At the heart of the feeling of superiority lies the desire of the child to seem like an adult, that is, to look "cooler", smarter, more significant than others. Often a psychologically non-adult person with power and financial position considers himself to be higher in status, so the lives of others can be neglected. Such an attitude towards people forms a falsely high self-esteem, as a result, a psychologically non-adult begins to consider himself in society really superior to others, literally a "superior" race.
The force of action always generates the force of reaction. Sensing danger, the poor majority, whose lives can be neglected, naturally unite for their own safety. As a result, there is an increase in mutual hatred in society, which develops into ultra-right self-destructive nationalism and society dies.
A CONTEMPTUOUS-ARROGANT ATTITUDE IS THE MAIN CAUSE OF HATRED IN SOCIETY!
«Social racism» is a demonstration of arrogance, hatred, contempt for people, and perception of them as “empty place.” Social racism is the highest form of human humiliation in society and the cause of most problems.
NOTE In order for a child from any social group to realize himself in life, he should not have an overestimated-arrogant or underestimated-derogatory self-esteem. To do this, parents are strongly recommended TO CATEGORICALLY PROHIBIT THEIR CHILDREN FROM INSULTING OTHERS FROM EARLY CHILDHOOD AND NOT TO ALLOW A CONTEMPTUOUS AND ARROGANT ATTITUDE TOWARDS OTHERS! «Criteria for insults» (see further).
31 the consumer attitude of man and woman towards each other;
Commentary on sign No. 31.
Considering their own children to be still not independent in adulthood, many parents, more often mothers, for the sake of their own peace of mind, continue to fanatically take care of them. As a result, excessive parental care in the child's psyche is perceived as something due, taken for granted, which subsequently forms a consumer attitude towards people, including their own parents.
A similar consumer attitude in a man or woman (psychologically not adults) manifests itself in relation to each other. For example, a man who was over-cared for by his own mother sees a woman as a substitute for his mother, from whom he demands the same care. But due to the child’s psyche, a woman is unable to replace a man’s mother, as a result, such a man, not perceiving a woman as a person, treats her consumeristically, as a thing that can be changed at any time.
In turn, a man, due to the lack of support from a woman due to a bad attitude towards her, is not able to realize himself.
NOTE In the event that a woman focuses on supporting her man and on his motivation to realize himself in society, and the man focuses on providing for the family and on the woman’s motivation to self-realize in the family as a good mother, thanks to whose upbringing her children will be able to realize themselves in life — it is possible to create strong family!
IMPORTANT! CONSUMER ATTITUDES ARE OFTEN FORMED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS!
IMPORTANT! A COMMON MISTAKE IS THAT THE MOTHER TAKES CARE OF THE CHILD FOR HER OWN SAKE!
32 a person has extreme states of the psyche: either childish carelessness or childish panic fear;
Commentary on sign No. 32.
Child carelessness is the inability to take into account the negative consequences of one’s own actions due to a frivolous attitude towards oneself.
The reason for children's fear is a person's lack of self-confidence. Children's fear, as a rule, for no serious reason, plunges a person into a state of "victim", which leads to helplessness and inaction, or, conversely, to aggression and cruelty.
THE CAUSE OF ACCIDENTS, ROAD TRAFFIC ACCIDENTS, FIRES, AND FATAL TRAGEDIES IS THE CHILDISH CARELESSNESS OF BIOLOGICALLY ADULTS!
DON'T WANT AGGRESSION? — DON’T DRIVE A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT TO A FEAR OF PANIC!
33 a person has extreme states of the psyche: either childish selfishness or childish altruism;
Commentary on sign No. 33.
childish selfishness;
Selfishness, like egocentrism, is always childish in nature and natural for a child.
For a child or a psychologically non-adult, due to the presence of childhood helplessness, solving one’s own problems is always a priority. Solving his problems at the expense and to the detriment of others, the egoist in return receives bad relationships with those on whom his life directly depends. Such a person, even after becoming a parent, takes care of children not for the sake of the children, but for his own sake, thereby not realizing that he is personally cultivating in them similar egoists. The cycle repeats.
The presence of egocentrism in a person does not contribute to the development of emotional connections and emotional attachment to others. Such a person lacks a sense of family, a sense of homeland, a sense of community. Because of egocentrism, a person is unable to bear obligations to others, and in the case of his own benefit, usually insignificant, he will easily sever ties with relatives, friends or acquaintances.
childish altruism;
Childish carelessness is at the heart of altruism. Altruism is dangerous because by selflessly solving the problems of others, a person does not solve his own.
Children and psychologically non-adults value only what they pay money for. Anything that is free is not valuable to them. By solving another person's problems without creating value in his eyes (free of charge!), the solver, by forming a dismissive attitude towards himself, devalues himself. At the same time, the person whose problems have been solved still retains a child's psyche.
34 a person has extreme states of the psyche: either a pessimist or an optimist;
Commentary on sign No. 34.
Due to low self-esteem, a psychologically non-adult person is easily susceptible to decadent moods. As a result, often bringing himself to a state of psychological exhaustion, a person easily inflates a problem of a “universal” scale from an absolutely insignificant problem.
A pessimist or optimist, without realizing it, plunges himself into self-deception, and by spreading panic or, conversely, inflated expectations, he causes damage to himself.
In life, a person must be both a pessimist and an optimist at the same time. In difficult situations, optimism should motivate a person to act and move forward, and pessimism should analyze and prevent situations when life could develop according to the worst scenario.
35 a person has extreme states of the psyche: either you are with us, or you are against us;
Commentary on sign No. 35.
A psychologically non-adult person, due to extreme mental states, divides people exclusively into his own and others'. As a result, without realizing it, it creates a split in society according to the principle "if you are not with us, then you are our enemy", which eventually leads society to self-destruction.
36 a person has extreme states of the psyche: either high self-esteem or low self-esteem; an overestimated or underestimated assessment of people and events around;
Commentary on sign No. 36.
To identify their real abilities, a person needs an exceptionally balanced self-esteem.
Often, a person with high self-esteem inspires false self-confidence to others. As a result, a person without talent to build a fictitious career, while a talented person with low self-esteem does not make efforts for self-realization. As a result, the place of a person who is truly capable of benefiting society is taken by an amateur with inflated self-esteem, the only thing capable of doing is causing harm to others.
UNDERESTIMATED OR OVERESTIMATED SELF-ESTEEM WILL NOT ALLOW THE CHILD TO REVEAL HIS STRENGTHS!!
37 a person is wasting money; a person litters in public places; damages public property; gets tattoos, a person which he will regret in the future;
Commentary on sign No. 37.
a person is wasting money;
Due to the inability to control himself, a psychologically non-adult person is unable to control his expenses. So, having problems with earning money due to the desire not to burden himself with solving other people’s problems, a person thoughtlessly spends his last money on frivolous things, on entertainment and “toys”, and makes numerous unplanned purchases. As a result, due to a lack of money due to the preservation of the child's psyche, one or both of the spouses in the family often experience domestic scandals, ultimately leading to divorce.
a person litters in public places; damages public property;
A person litters in public places, because he is used to his parents always cleaning up after him.
a person gets tattoos, which he will regret in the future;
A person does not understand that having a tattoo negatively affects his reputation and career. A man may not be hired for a high-paying job because of a tattoo, and it will be more difficult for a girl with a tattoo to marry a psychologically adult and serious person.
LATER MANY PEOPLE CONSIDER THE TATTOO A MISTAKE THAT CANNOT BE FIXED!
38 fear of being a "black sheep"; inability to say a categorical adult “no”; self-destructive obedience;
Commentary on sign No. 38.
Under the age of 12*, a child is obedient, but with respect to older people, childish obedience can be self-destructive. Due to the fear of being a "black sheep" among peers, a teenager whose psyche may correspond to the level of a 7-9-year-old child, is not able to say a categorical adult "no".
A child who is easily influenced and manipulated can be easily provoked to commit a rash act that is extremely dangerous to his health: using drugs or alcohol for the first time, starting to smoke, using profanity, committing a criminal offense or committing suicide.
In adulthood, people with childish obedience are also easily manipulated: they become victims of scammers, financial pyramids, and religious sects. Criminal elements, as a rule, use such people “in the dark,” when the person does not even know that he is participating in the commission of a crime. In a situation where adult “teenagers” parasitize adult “children,” exclusively fighting the child’s psyche can reduce the number of victims of manipulators.
IT IS NECESSARY TO TEACH CHILDREN TO SAY A CATEGORICAL "NO" TO MANIPULATIVE SELF-DESTRUCTION!
Saying a categorical adult "no" to manipulative self-destruction for the first time means that your child has realized full responsibility for his life for the first time. Saying “no” is not a manifestation of childish or teenage cowardice, but a manifestation of the sanity of a psychologically strong, self-confident person, which will more than once protect him from irreparable mistakes in life.
IT IS NECESSARY TO LEARN HOW TO DISTINGUISH THE PSYCHOLOGICAL AND BIOLOGICAL AGE OF A CHILD!
*THERE ARE FOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL AGES OF A PERSON — THREE CHILDREN AND ONE ADULT:
1 psychological age up to 12 years: the child is obedient to everyone older; parents are authorities; due to psychological self-doubt and inability to be responsible for oneself the child’s independence is limited;
BOTH CHILDREN AND ADULTS UNDER THE PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE OF 12 ARE EASILY MANIPULATED, INCLUDING SELF-DESTRUCTIVE ONES! AT THIS AGE, IT IS IMPORTANT TO USE THE CHILD'S OBEDIENCE FOR THE PURPOSE OF HIS UPBRINGING! PARENTS, LEARNING WITH HIM THE SIGNS OF THE CHILD'S PSYCHE, CAN ALREADY FORM THE PSYCHE OF A PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULT PERSON BY THE AGE OF 13-14!
2 psychological age 13-14 years old: the child stops listening and hearing, becomes disobedient; parents are no longer authorities, peers become authorities; as before, having self-doubt, the child himself limits his independence and ability to bear responsibility;
3 psychological age 15-17 years old: a person forbids anyone to limit his autonomy; a person is able to take 100% responsibility and independently make fateful decisions in choosing a profession, a partner for starting a family, in choosing his environment, on which the safety, quality of life and fate of a person will depend.
IMPORTANT! IT IS PRECISELY PEOPLE OF THIS PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE WHO HAVE A HIGH PROBABILITY OF SELF-REALIZATION IN LIFE!
4 18+: the psychological age at which a person, out of respect for himself, fundamentally does not violate any law.
NOTE This psychological age is extremely rarely achieved.
39 instigator of street fights and domestic violence; a person seeks to purchase weapons, not realizing that he personally provokes counter aggression; unconscious self-destruction;
Commentary on sign No. 39.
instigator of street fights and domestic violence;
A psychologically non-adult uses beatings of people as a way of self-aggrandizement, while the person does not understand that for causing physical injury he can receive a criminal sentence and ruin his life.
a person seeks to purchase weapons, not realizing that he personally provokes counter aggression;
A psychologically weak and insecure man, in order to compensate for the lack of masculinity, seeks to acquire cold, gas, traumatic, and firearms.
You can have a personal weapon only if relatives, friends, acquaintances have not revealed the presence of signs of a child's psyche in a person. Otherwise, firearms in a psychologically non-adult with an uncontrollable psyche will lead to deadly tragedies: murders, suicides, mass shootings etc..
IF YOU HAVE A WEAPON IN YOUR HANDS, THEN, IN ORDER TO FORESTALL THE POTENTIALLY DEADLY THREAT POSED BY YOU, THIS GIVES THE RIGHT TO OTHERS TO SHOOT AT YOU FIRST!
unconscious self-destruction;
Self-harm, that is, the unconscious self-mutilation, both physical and mental, when a person kills himself by himself with his own hands, namely: smokes; uses drugs; alcohol, uncontrollably and in excessive quantities; overeats, which leads to obesity; starves, which leads to anorexia. Such actions are based on childish carelessness and a frivolous attitude towards oneself.
Unlike a woman, whose main mission is to have children and take care of them, where a woman's self-realization is the self-realization of her children, in a man, the lack of interest in life due to the lack of a serious worthy goal, having achieved which he will be respected in society, leads him to meaninglessness existence. As a result, not understanding his own purpose and feeling dissatisfaction, a man unable to find himself in life finds himself in a psychological impasse, when the lack of self-realization becomes the main reason for male self-destruction.
UNLIKE A WOMAN, A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT MAN, DUE TO SELF-DOUBT, IS MORE OFTEN SUSCEPTIBLE TO STRESS AND HAS A HARD TIME ENDURING IT, WHICH AS A RESULT IS A COMMON CAUSE OF CHRONIC ALCOHOLISM!
IMPORTANT! ALCOHOL, DRUGS, WEAPONS, DRIVING, BIG MONEY, POPULARITY, POWER AND INFLUENCE ARE CONTRAINDICATED FOR A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT!
40 a person does not realize that money is paid solely for solving other people's problems; a person does not realize the origin of products on the shelves in stores;
Commentary on sign No. 40.
a person does not realize that money is paid solely for solving other people's problems;
A person does not realize that absolutely everything that people do in life is collectively, and each one in particular, is to solve problems exclusively of a person’s domestic safety, namely: produce food; build houses and roads, produce vehicles; produce electricity, gas, water, heat supply, and provide sewerage; provide medical services; ensure the protection of law and order and culture; provide communication services; mass entertainment services necessary for a person’s psychological health, as well as educational services for the professional solution of the above problems. And this is precisely why people pay each other money.
Money is paid for solving exclusively other people's problems, where money is the numbers by which people measure each other's contribution to solving the above problems.
If a person wants to earn enough in life, then he should focus on solving one of the above problems on an industrial scale.
a person does not realize the origin of products on the shelves in stores;
It is the child's psyche that does not allow a person to think about where the products in the stores come from. A person does not understand that behind each product or service is the fate of a particular person. And this person, who in fact spends his own money on other people, was not afraid to take on obligations and responsibility for the mass production of the necessary product, spend all his efforts, nerves, knowledge, time, health, and in case of failure, he may lose everything.
If a child does not learn to solve other people's problems, he will live in poverty all his life.
IMPORTANT! MONEY IS PAID TO SOLVE OTHER PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS, NOT YOUR OWN! THE REASON FOR POVERTY IN THE WORLD IS THE CHILD'S PSYCHE, WHICH MAKES PEOPLE UNABLE TO FOCUS ON SOLVING OTHER PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS!
41 a person strives to gain a competitive advantage in society;
Commentary on sign No. 41.
Due to the child's fear of not being able to withstand competition in adulthood due to lack of self-confidence, a person with a child's psyche strives to gain a competitive advantage in society at any cost. As a result, his parents, being in the power of forced decisions, realizing that their child is psychologically not ready for a responsible and independent life, are forced, using their money and connections, to lobby for the interests of their own child: they, using their personal contacts, arrange for him to get to a prestigious university or a good job; they promote him in his career for the sake of a high position in society, etc.. At the same time, a person either does not have enough, or often does not have any professional knowledge and skills at all.
Such actions by parents lead their child to even greater psychological self-doubt. Even after becoming a "big" boss, a person understands all his life that he personally has no merit in his high position in society. And over the years, a person, continuing to live the life of an unrealized person, begins to feel psychologically worse than before.
Big money and power in the hands of psychologically non-adults who are unable to solve their problems on their own provide them with the opportunity to solve them. And psychologically non-adults solve their problems, as a rule, at the expense, and most importantly, to the detriment of the safety of other people.
IMPORTANT! EVERYWHERE, ESPECIALLY IN POLITICS, THERE SHOULD BE EXCLUSIVELY PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULTS!
42 prone to criminal acts;
Commentary on sign No. 42.
Because of the childish desire to look "cooler" than their peers, because of childish naivety and 100% conviction that it is possible, without solving anyone's problems, to "make easy money" here and now, a frivolous towards oneself, psychologically non-adult person easily goes to a rash act — commits a crime. Commits a fateful and irreversible action, as a result of which he receives a criminal sentence, having personally broken his own life.
Among the people capable of acting, as a result of which many of them committed a crime, there are many strong-willed and talented people who would achieve great success in business if, having revealed their natural potential, they realized themselves in society without breaking the law. In real life, often the owners of a strong-willed character and, unfortunately, destructive self-deception always end up the same way — in prison or in a cemetery.
CHILDREN, TEENAGERS AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULTS ARE SELF-DESTRUCTIVELY OBEDIENT, THAT IS, THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO SAY A CATEGORICAL ADULT "NO", WHICH IS WHY THEY ARE EASILY MANIPULATED AND INVOLVED IN CRIMINAL ACTS! See sign № 37
43 a person does not realize the value of its own culture; a person does not take into account national interests and national security issues;
Commentary on sign No. 43.
The basis for making any decisions in life, regardless of a person’s status, nationality or religion, is always based on only three factors:
1 security issues, which include addressing issues of personal safety, the safety of your family, your environment, the state, etc.;
2 "save face" (a psychologically non-adult person, due to a childish fear of appearing non-adult, categorically refusing to admit his mistakes, as a result, stubbornly goes to the end, causing damage to himself and others);
3 at the mercy of forced decisions, depending on the first and second factors.
Issues of national security, like the value of one’s own culture, lie in the area of issues of personal security of any person. Because of childish carelessness, a psychologically non-adult person does not think about his safety.
When resolving issues of personal security or the security of one’s state at the expense and to the detriment of the security of another person or his state, then, finding himself in the grip of forced decisions, the opposite side will be forced to respond with pressure or use force.
BY PLUNGING YOUR OPPONENT INTO THE POWER OF FORCED DECISIONS, YOU YOURSELF PROVOKE AGGRESSION AGAINST YOURSELF!
IN ORDER TO AVOID AGGRESSION, DO NOT CREATE A THREAT OF LOSING SOMEONE'S CULTURE, IDENTITY OR LANGUAGE!
THE DIVERSITY OF CULTURES IS NECESSARY SO THAT IN CASE OF INFECTION WITH THE IDEOLOGY OF SELF-DESTRUCTION OF ONE CULTURE, THE INFECTION DOES NOT SPREAD TO THE WHOLE WORLD!
44 a person solves his problems at the expense, and most importantly, to the detriment of other people; does not realize that the power of action always generates the power of counteraction, thereby personally provoking negative and even aggressive actions against himself;
Commentary on sign No. 44.
A psychologically non-adult person does not realize that the power of action always generates the power of counteraction and, solving their problems at the expense of safety, and most importantly, to the detriment of the safety of other people, a person personally provokes hatred, hostility, aggression against himself, bringing physical or moral damage. As a result, there is a colossal mutual distrust, which further affects family relationships, career growth, etc..
ANY ACTIONS, INCLUDING THOSE AGAINST ONESELF OR AGAINST OTHER PEOPLE, HAVE ALWAYS GENERATED, GENERATE AND WILL GENERATE RESPONSES:
• Do you childishly put yourself above others? Do you despise people? Do you treat people like animals? — You will get aggression in return;
• Do you hate people of a certain nationality? — Then you will receive collective hatred in return;
• Do you solve personal security issues at the expense of safety and to the detriment of the safety of others, and you don’t understand it? - Get even more danger in return;
• Are you insulting people around you? — You will always be humiliated in return;
• Non-team player? — In life you will be alone, without the support of people around;
• Don't you listen and don't you hear? — Everyone will stop communicating with you;
• Do not allow a different point of view? — You plunge yourself into self-deception;
• Do not trying to get to the bottom of it? — You will do something irreparable;
• Can't you say a categorical adult "no" to self-destruction? — Get health problems and an early death;
• Have you surrounded yourself with psychologically non-adult people? Didn't find yourself in life? Lived your life in vain? — Blame only yourself!
IF YOU LOST THIS GAME TO YOURSELF — BLAME YOURSELF EXCLUSIVELY!
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1 THERE ARE NO ANONYMOUS PEOPLE WHEN COMMUNICATING ONLINE IN THE SMARTNET
The lack of anonymity when communicating online forces the child, firstly, to think before speaking and, secondly, to be responsible for his words and actions, which contributes to the formation of a psychologically strong and self-confident personality. The more responsibility a person takes on, the more success he will achieve in life.
2 IN THE SMARTNET, PEOPLE LEARN TO COMMUNICATE WITHOUT INSULTS
Having learned not to insult people, a adult or child will not provoke conflicts with people on whom his life depends. And most importantly, without being distracted by mutual insults, thereby focusing more on himself, a child who at the same time will not be humiliated and will not elevate himself by insulting others will develop a balanced self-esteem that will allow to reveal the strengths of a person, his natural potential. And a ban on retaliatory insults on the smartnet will develop such strong motivation and internal energy to act that the child will have the only way to “self-exalt” in life — this is to successfully realize himself in society.
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3 IN THE SMARTNET, BOTH ADULTS AND TEENAGERS TRUGGLE WITH THE SIGNS OF CHILD'S PSYCHE IN THEMSELVES
In the process of fighting the child’s psyche in the smartnet, special conditions are created under which the child is not under the influence and/or dependence of psychologically non-adult people. (see «Signs of a child's psyche.»)
In the smartnet, the system of colored blocksigns «Conflict-Free Thinking™» allows children to fight against the child's psyche without the participation of parents!
NOTE The signs of the child's psyche are developed on the basis of elementary logic, which is absent from the child by default due to the lack of life experience due to childhood. The struggle with the child's psyche develops everyday logical reasonableness, which contributes to a more adequate perception of events around.
4 IN A SMARTNET, PEOPLE FORM AN ENVIRONMENT OF PSYCHOLOGICALLY ADULT PEOPLE AROUND THEMSELVES
The safety and self-realization of a child, as well as the quality of life and the fate of any person directly depend on the people around them. A strict approach to choosing people in your environment for users who are on the smartnet helps to solve the above problems.
In the smart network, people use influence and dependence on each other in a smart way, namely: children, teenagers, and adults form their psyche, being influenced and dependent on people who do not refuse to fight the child's psyche in themselves, that is, psychologically adults.
5 IN THE SMARTNET, PARENTS ARE FOCUSED ON THE SELF-REALIZATION OF THEIR CHILDREN
All the troubles in a person's life come from the fact that most people have not found themselves in life.
* alcoholism, drug addiction, suicides, crime, terrorist attacks, mass shooting, hatred, mutual insults, arrogance, social "racism", self-destructive behavior, frequent stress for no particular reason, self-doubt, homelessness, accidents, unconscious risk, carelessness in life, road accidents, domestic conflicts, domestic violence, divorce, impudence, rudeness, conflicts, mutual distrust, aggression in society.
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SELF-REALIZATION OF THE CHILD IN LIFE SHOULD BE THE SUPER-GOAL OF SOCIETY! THIS REQUIRES CONDITIONS UNDER WHICH THE CHILD WILL BE ABLE TO DEVELOP A BALANCED SELF-ESTEEM, FOCUS ON HIS STRENGTHS AND, HAVING REALIZED THEM, LIVE A DECENT LIFE!
A BALANCED SELF-ESTEEM IS POSSIBLE IF:
• the child grows up surrounded by psychologically adult people;
• no one insults the child;
• the child does not exalt himself by insulting people;
• the child realizes that all people are mutually dependent on each other, and that is why he must be a team player throughout his life;
• the child learns to overcome himself, learns to say a categorical adult “no” to self-destruction;
• the child understands that he may be wrong and tries to understand the essence;
• the child learns to control himself and understands the important thing — any destructive actions towards people, insults, hatred and aggression will always generate counteractions — retaliatory insults, hatred and aggression!
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2 ONE WHO CONSIDERS THE POSSIBILITY OF DESTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES FROM THEIR ACTIONS AND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM;
3 ONE WHO IS FOCUSED ON UNLOCKING THE NATURAL POTENTIAL NOT ONLY IN HIMSELF, BUT ALSO IN OTHERS;
4 ONE WHO, WHILE CARING, IS NOT THE OBJECT OF CARE;
5 SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T BREAK ANY LAWS OUT OF SELF-RESPECT!
NOTE As soon as a person begins to struggle with the signs of the child's psyche in himself placed below, from that moment on, a person ceases to be considered psychologically non-adult, since he is aware of this problem in himself and is ready to fight it responsibly.
EDITION 3.1
(Author: © Boris Belevtsov)
HATRED AND HOSTILITY ARE A CLEAR SIGN OF PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT PEOPLE!
DO NOT JUDGE BY ONE THING ABOUT EVERYONE!
IN EVERYDAY LIFE, THE INTERDEPENDENCE OF PEOPLE IS INEVITABLE!
PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR PRESERVING SELF-DOUBT IN A CHILD!
TO REACH YOUR POTENTIAL, YOU NEED TO FOCUS EXCLUSIVELY ON THE STRENGTHS OF A PERSON!
A CONTEMPTUOUS-ARROGANT ATTITUDE IS THE MAIN CAUSE OF HATRED IN SOCIETY!
DON'T WANT AGGRESSION? — DON’T DRIVE A PSYCHOLOGICALLY NON-ADULT TO A FEAR OF PANIC!
LATER MANY PEOPLE CONSIDER THE TATTOO A MISTAKE THAT CANNOT BE FIXED!
• the child grows up surrounded by psychologically adult people;
• no one insults the child;
• the child does not exalt himself by insulting people;
• the child realizes that all people are mutually dependent on each other, and that is why he must be a team player throughout his life;
• the child learns to overcome himself, learns to say a categorical adult “no” to self-destruction;
• the child understands that he may be wrong and tries to understand the essence;
• the child learns to control himself and understands the important thing — any destructive actions towards people, insults, hatred and aggression will always generate counteractions — retaliatory insults, hatred and aggression!